If you were online in late 2022, you remember the "Wife Guy" apocalypse. It was everywhere. One day, the Try Guys were a wholesome YouTube quartet, and the next, the internet was dissecting blurry club footage like it was the Zapruder film. At the center of that storm was Alexandria Herring.
Since then? Radio silence. Total digital ghosting.
Honestly, it’s rare for someone who made their living in front of a camera to just... stop. But that’s exactly what happened. While the remaining Try Guys—Keith Habersberger, Zach Kornfeld, and Eugene Lee Yang—moved on to launch their own streaming platform, 2nd Try TV, the question of Alex Herring where is she now remains one of the most persistent mysteries in the influencer world.
The Quiet Departure from 2nd Try LLC
Let’s get the facts straight first. Alex didn't just disappear from videos; she vanished from the company entirely.
While Ned Fulmer was very publicly "removed" following an internal review, Alex’s exit was handled with significantly more legal padding. For months after the scandal broke, her LinkedIn profile still listed her as an Associate Producer at 2nd Try LLC. Fans checked it daily. It became a sort of digital thermometer for the drama. Eventually, that changed.
She’s gone.
Insiders and former colleagues have hinted in various podcasts and Reddit threads that Alex likely signed a comprehensive Non-Disclosure Agreement (NDA). In California, employment laws are tricky, especially regarding "consensual" relationships between superiors and subordinates. It's widely understood that she likely received a severance package in exchange for her resignation and a promise of silence.
Basically, she was paid to go away quietly, and she took the deal.
Where Is She Now? Life After the "Food Babies"
It’s been years since the last "Food Babies" segment aired. If you're looking for her on Instagram, you're going to find a digital tombstone.
Her account went private almost immediately after the news broke and has stayed that way. She hasn't posted a "Notes App" apology. She hasn't done a "tell-all" interview with Alex Cooper on Call Her Daddy. Nothing.
Here is what we actually know about her current status:
- Relationship Status: Her ten-year relationship with fiancé Will Thayer ended the moment the scandal hit. Thayer was actually the one who reportedly received the initial tips about the affair. He wiped her from his life instantly.
- Professional Pivot: Sources close to the LA production scene suggest Alex has moved back into "behind-the-scenes" freelance work, likely under a different name or within circles that don't overlap with the YouTube creator world.
- Location: She is believed to still be in the Los Angeles area, though she has successfully avoided being spotted by paparazzi or "fans" with smartphone cameras.
It’s kind of impressive, actually. In an era where everyone wants to "reclaim their narrative," Alex chose to simply delete the narrative.
The Power Imbalance and the "Subordinate" Factor
One thing people often get wrong about this situation is the "villain" dynamic. While the internet was quick to brand both Ned and Alex as equal offenders, the professional reality was much more complicated.
Ned was her boss. He was an owner of the company.
Because of that power dynamic, 2nd Try LLC had to tread very carefully. If they had fired her outright while Ned was a founding member, they could have faced a massive wrongful termination or harassment lawsuit. By the time the dust settled, it was clear that the brand couldn't keep her on—not because of "morality," but because the audience trust was completely shattered.
Every time she appeared on screen, the comments section would have been a war zone. You can't run a comedy channel when your audience is throwing stones at the producer.
Why She Likely Won't Ever Come Back
Don't hold your breath for a comeback video.
The "Try Guys" brand has fundamentally shifted. They’ve added new cast members like Kwesi James and Joyce Louis-Jean. They’ve moved into a subscription-based model. Bringing Alex back—or even mentioning her name—would be a PR nightmare that serves no one.
For Alex, there is no "winning" in a public return. If she apologizes, people call it fake. If she defends herself, people call her a homewrecker. By staying silent, she lets the fire die out.
Moving Forward: Lessons from the Fallout
If you’re still following this saga, the takeaway isn't just about celebrity gossip. It’s a case study in how the "creator economy" handles HR disasters.
- Workplace Boundaries Matter: Even in "fun" offices with beanbag chairs and beer taps, the boss-employee line is there for a reason.
- Digital Footprints are Permanent: Even though she's gone, the old videos remain. People are still discovering the "wedding dress" video where she tried on gowns while Ned watched. It’s hauntingly awkward in hindsight.
- Silence is a Strategy: Sometimes, the best way to handle a scandal is to simply stop existing online. It’s the only way to truly "reset."
If you want to stay updated on the current state of the group she left behind, your best bet is to check out the 2nd Try subscription service. As for Alex, she’s likely exactly where she wants to be: anonymous.
Next Steps for Readers:
If you are trying to scrub your own digital footprint or protect your privacy like Alex did, start by auditing your LinkedIn visibility and setting your Instagram to "Private" or "Hidden" from search engines. You can also use tools like DeleteMe to remove your personal address and phone number from public "white pages" sites that often aggregate data on people involved in viral news stories.